tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29002686.post3502773237884038222..comments2023-03-26T03:21:26.006-04:00Comments on My Family Sucked!!! Life After Estrangement.: LOVE AND MARRIAGEWinterskiprincesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17540416561657173099noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29002686.post-51653092641976427332008-06-02T17:19:00.000-04:002008-06-02T17:19:00.000-04:00I read with much interest this story of why many m...I read with much interest this story of why many men are opting not to marry. They are allowing possibility fear take control of them to such an extent that they are denying themselves the happiness they and a spouse could share.<BR/><BR/>The reality is, of course, that in 2008 many more couples will divorce than at any other time in history. That is, to be sure, a sad state of affairs; however, much can be done to circumvent the possibility of this happening in your marriage.<BR/><BR/>Love and marriage are decisions that thinking, intelligent individuals make in order to intertwine their lives. A decision then too must be made daily to stay in love, work together and enhance/enrich this very personal relationship. <BR/><BR/>Those who harbor fears of marriage can also circumvent these fears by seeking out resources that will provide self-education on readiness or lack thereof for marriage. Most people spend years preparing for a career but almost no one spends any time preparing themselves for marriage. <BR/><BR/>Could this then be one of the reasons that marriages are failing at such an alarming rate?<BR/><BR/>Not only that but those who actually get over the fear factor of getting married spend many hours, weeks and months planning for their wedding day but for some reason don't realize this preparation is only for one day. <BR/><BR/>The marriage, however, is for a lifetime for which most couples put in little or no time in the preparation beyond the wedding day. <BR/><BR/>You don't have to let this be your epithet. Resources are available to help you prepare for marriage and a lifetime of love and happiness. But, you have to plan, just like for your career. When you're ready, the right person will come along and you will know it because you've prepared for him or her. <BR/><BR/>Your preparation can begin now with some of the resources you'll find at <A HREF="http://lifetime-of-love.blogspot.com" REL="nofollow">Making Love Last a Lifetime</A> .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com