tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29002686.post839496152448618620..comments2023-03-26T03:21:26.006-04:00Comments on My Family Sucked!!! Life After Estrangement.: Er, I do Believe Estrangement Queen Just Admitted She Posts in RetaliationWinterskiprincesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17540416561657173099noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29002686.post-19758059801765792932008-05-30T21:11:00.000-04:002008-05-30T21:11:00.000-04:00Oh, and obviously she rubs ME the wrong way, and I...Oh, and obviously she rubs ME the wrong way, and I have known her to rub other people the wrong way.<BR/><BR/>I am convinced that there are not nice people in the world, and those people procreate!!! Not all their kids can be bad, but must be decent people. So it's totally possible for either parents to have horrible kids, or kids have horrible parents.<BR/><BR/>All in all though, my husband and my life is pretty darned good. My poor husband just lost his dad this year, and his mom three years ago now. Seems unfair somehow, since they had such a great relationship. On the other hand, some sons and daughters loose their parents much ealier.<BR/><BR/>I was fortunate to have my Italian Grandmother and Grandfather around for a good portion of my life. I even knew my Great Grandmother until I was 9, and then she was the first in the family that I knew of to die.<BR/><BR/>It's nice that you forgave your mother for that, it probably wasn't easy. I would guess that she probably felt bad for it as well.Winterskiprincesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17540416561657173099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29002686.post-15622832059921577122008-05-30T19:14:00.000-04:002008-05-30T19:14:00.000-04:00No, born November 21st, so I believe Sag.No, born November 21st, so I believe Sag.Winterskiprincesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17540416561657173099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29002686.post-63121775580141176602008-05-30T16:33:00.000-04:002008-05-30T16:33:00.000-04:00No but I stumbled on it.I left home a long time ag...No but I stumbled on it.<BR/>I left home a long time ago...wanting something other than poverty and my mother's physical abuse. I forgive her for her parents were like that and she knew no better.<BR/>Sometimes I think my husband and I were meant to be together because we like you and yours are crabs that jump out of the pot.<BR/>The thing is we never had these problems before with his family until his parents moved back to this area we are now.<BR/>It isnt coincidence.<BR/>Just like my Mother in law said "her inlaws hated" her is not coincidence.<BR/>Just like your mother rubs me the wrong way...its maybe because she rubs everyone that way?<BR/>I ask you and I wonder is she a virgo..just asking.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29002686.post-75708135932616765992008-05-30T14:57:00.000-04:002008-05-30T14:57:00.000-04:00My husband's (biological) dad "left" the family wh...My husband's (biological) dad "left" the family when he was five. His step dad was his first dad.<BR/><BR/>The biological (I find this a hard title to give him) father did horrible things like steal the older kids money, have affairs, give his wife's things to his girl friends. They were, believe it or not, part of an arranged marriage.<BR/><BR/>Any how, when his mother family got sick of it and divorced him, this guy decided to pay her back he would have no part of his four kids lives as well. I know this has affected my husband, but not as much as if he had to live with this as long as his older two siblings did.<BR/><BR/>When you have lived with someone your whole life, the betrayal is even harder to understand, forgive, or relate to in anyway. <BR/><BR/>Family members do not deserve treatment like this. Maybe someday his mother will realize her error, and apologize. I hope so, it makes it far easier to overcome. Or just acknowledge that perhaps this was not the appropriate action.<BR/><BR/>Good luck to you both. I know how hard this is. Nancy Richards has a great blog on this. Love that article by the way. Was that written by you by any chance?Winterskiprincesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17540416561657173099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29002686.post-53091923203596278572008-05-30T14:29:00.000-04:002008-05-30T14:29:00.000-04:00I just wanted to tell you one more thing.I am trou...I just wanted to tell you one more thing.<BR/>I am troubled because my DH wanted his parents to love him and they threw him away. Who does that?<BR/><BR/>I do think that yes you care enough to see if shes changed.<BR/>Read this story it makes more sense.<BR/>http://www.3four50.com/v2/?page=story&read_story_id=44<BR/>Anyways as to your mum...she is bitter and mean..nothing more to say.<BR/>She takes everything someone types and twists it as an insult to her or someway to insult the typist.<BR/>I think personally it would be best if you did stay away..she needs help. ElleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com