Wednesday, June 12, 2013
Say it with me "dysfunctional triangulation" yet again. If I had an interest in "connecting" with you, I would call you, as most normal people would do. Perhaps write. Instead of triangulating your messages through relatives or websites.
I DO NOT have any interest in contacting you. Lynn's death has NOT inspired me to disregard my boundaries or my happiness.
And if we see each other at an event soon, just try to act like a normal human being. You know "hi" and walk on by. Not glare, or press up against the redbox distribution center, or scowl, or any of the number of things you usually do. Unless it is the other one, in which case also just try to act like a human being. Let me talk to my relatives if I want to without running up and inserting yourself in between as you did at the anniversary party. Trust me, I have no interest in talking about either of you.
Just going to support the groom and bride. So please, don't take these as opportunities to do whatever selfish and inconsiderate thing it is that you are tempted to do. Try just try to be decent one time. It would be appreciated.