Or, someone can realize the person in front of them is not someone they care to know
"Someone can be a good person and still believe untruths. This is what inspired me to write about Being Wrong. Because I believe that many good people believe bad things about other good people who don't deserve being so maligned. After all, it is said that you have to demonize someone before you can hate them. It's a lot harder to dislike and hate someone who really is a nice enough person. So, to estrange them successfully, it helps to demonize, demonize, demonize!!"
No, for me, it was a very painful look at the reality of the situation. My NM is not a monster or a demon. She is just someone I don't want in my life. So many examples of why including her blog and postings about me on other sites that were "not meant for my eyes", as an explanation.
That's fine, but there is no reason to again point the finger of blame at me, and continue to not recognize my valid reasons for estrangement that have been laid out for her (and certainly not denied by her). It's statements like these that have me shaking my head.