Thursday, May 08, 2008

Bye To The Poop


My Father In Law died on Tuesday (5/6/2008). He had a bad slide the last few weeks that included two heart attacks. A stroke landed him in the hospital in the first place before that. I learned enough about old age care to be very alarmed for my old age. They basically played hot potato with my father in law, as an infection festered from his amputated toe.


I know the infection was not the hospital's fault but their cavalier treatment of trying to get rid of him was inexcusable, and I am convinced the reason the infection festered. The hospital should not have let him go anywhere until he was stabilized.


Well, my father in law is gone now. I do think that was his wish, even if that was not our wish for him. The poop was broken hearted after the loss of his beloved wife. I think she was 95% of his enjoyment of life. His mental illness without her, really took over and diminished his life considerably.


Goodbye Poop, we love you. I know your beloved wife greeted you as you passed over.

Tuesday, May 06, 2008

Mom's Day Is on The Way!!


Do not worry, my little damaged friends. Mother's Day is on the way, and has already inspired a couple of postings. You will have to wait though, and be good. In the meantime, I will provide the following giblets of family angst.


Never was a Mother or Father's Day fan. Just another day that was theirs LOL. My husband's mother used to say "everyday is Mother's Day". My husband and his parents didn't just talk on the holidays, they talked everyday. And truth to tell, my E donor was up for the talking. It's just that it was always about her, and got old real fast. Robert and her mom would talk about both of them. She was interested in him, and she was interested in her.


It was a good example of getting what you give. My parents got what they gave from me, and it was quite a different relationship.

Monday, May 05, 2008

Monday Movie-The Chronicles of Narnia


I have to admit, when I heard the rumors that this was in any way involved with Christianity, it turned me right off. However, as a child, I had read this book and didn't recall any overt religious tones. Excellent book.
So the movie was on tv last night, and I took a peek. Now I want to read the book again LOL. It brought back so many memories of that book. It's in the fantasy genre of stories. Really beautifully done and magical. I can not recomend this movie enough, and it's really a feel good movie. Some parts may be hard for kids to take, but most of it rights itself out in the end.

Saturday, May 03, 2008

OMG, Kill Me Now!!!


My husband has gifted me with a stomach virus. Sorry about last month, but I have just felt lackluster of late, no doubt due to the oncoming doom of this plague.

When you have a hard time not gagging taking aspirin, you are in for a hard time of it. I am on liquids now, and let's just say though it is a great weight loss stimulator, it has not stopped me from having to go number two. You would think that would be a benefit of having to be on a liquid or mild diet. I assure you, this is not true. The liquid just exits from a different place.

Not a pretty picture, sorry, but I need someone suffering along with me. I probably feel week, AS I HAVE NOT EATEN ANYTHING OF SUBSTANCE FOR FOUR FING DAYS NOW!!! Combine that with the fact that I am a little frightened of eating or drinking anything at the moment.

Also has been bar none the busiest week of the year for business. Me, Jack, and Bri were supposed to go to a show this morning, but I just couldn't figure how to drive and not be near a restroom for a few hours. That wouldn't have been good.

Any how, sorry for the lack in blogging.

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Saturday Cinema-Caution, Lust



I couldn't sleep the other night, and wanted something a little out of my normal realm. Actually, as a teenager and young adult, I liked these Greta Garbo romatic/tragic kind of movies. As I got older, I began to think films like "Gone with the Wind" or "Camille" were so silly, as they could have had happy endings, but the characters were always making bad choices (and these were normally the women of the story, of course).


Same here, but it's a decadent movie. Pretty surprisingly graphic sex scenes!! Wasn't expecting that from a foreign movie. Interesting little movie, I really enjoyed it.