Monday, April 27, 2009

Regardless of the Attempted Explanation...

So did you or I miss an apology there, or explanation as to why she needed to elevate herself by debasing her daughter.

Oh, and why was a drinking problem that is non-existent mentioned as well as a medical problem being the reason for our estrangement.

Publicly she wishes to exonerate herself, but privately let me let you in on a little secret. The shellac put over a rotten piece of wood does not make it worth any more.
Anyhow, between that and the lies about name calling in e-mails, it's a poor way to try and extend an olive branch, and just about as believable as the sky being a putrid green.
I am not dissappointed in my anger causing her not to have direct contact with me (that and the shame and guilt she must feel at being such a liar and excuse maker and shellacing over her rotteness). That is by design. It's not the anger that scares her, it's the truth. The truth that ain't all that pretty nevermind how you wrap it or stick a bow on it.
On my blog, I would like to tell Ginny where she can stick something. Big old fake.
Oh, and lest we forget the sharing of my name with her sick little gremlin friends. God help their (the gemlins or BOL club as I like to call them) children if they ever decide, er make the mistake, of reconnecting. Run far, run fast.


Winterskiprincess said...

Makes her look bad in front of her "internet friends" (the only way she can have a friendship by the way). Like bible thumping Gale from:

Domain Name ? (Network)
IP Address 64.180.245.# (Telus Communications)
ISP Telus Communications
Location Continent : North America
Country : Canada (Facts)
State/Region : British Columbia
City : Coquitlam
Lat/Long : 49.2667, -122.7833 (Map)

Might have been one of a few that was a bit curious about her explanation:) I however, am not. It's pretty transparent and quite in character in the "person" that I knew as an adult, and was horrified by.

Winterskiprincess said...

And of course, it's another way to try and make me have contact with her.

Try an acknowledgement first that is truthful, and then if I friggin feel like it, we MIGHT talk. But probably not, you see an acknowledgement is not real when it comes with expectations and demands. You are entitled to nothing from me.

Winterskiprincess said...

A narcistic sociopath is never so empathetic, as when the rest of the world let's her know what she is doing wrong, and that it's not becoming.

The threat of being taken out of the limelight as the mother thersa of estrangements is enough to make her eat just a little bit of crow.

No matter what finicial arrangements my parents made in the divorce, it still stands that my loans are what paid for both ULowell and Worcester state, and these were paid out of my own pocket.

Whatever tony paid ginny or ginny paid tony had nothing to do with me. In fact, when my oh so truthful ginny learned that I had paid through those loans, she tried to get me to sue my own father. So she is well aware, and well, lying as usual not that it matters.

Because the college was not brought up as having anything whatsoever to do with the estrangement, but as a way to "fit in" with the other mothers who are probably just as truthful as her, if you go by their own vile postings.

I took care of what I could myself when I was younger, and never was the victim unlike these creeps.

Anonymous said...

If it's any consolation, it's pretty obvious from the writing on both blogs that you're the sane one & she's the manipulative narcissist. I came across her blog first while looking for info on accepting estrangement from my own narcissistic piece of work mom. There was something that just seemed off, to the point where I did a bit of digging to find this blog. And it confirms what I thought, you seem to be amazingly well adjusted considering it all.

And like my mom, she can't handle taking responsibility or accounting for her own actions, so she trashes me to anyone who will listen. I agree it does suck. But it sounds like you've got a great husband and you've made a great life for yourself. Congratulations on that! It would be an accomplishment for anyone, but it's even more so for those of us who grew up in a big old house o' crazy.

Winterskiprincess said...

Big o' crazy house, LOL. Yeah, too bad we couldn't see the crazy when we were younger.

I am very thankful for my family and family life now.

Winterskiprincess said...

The title of this particular post links up to my female donor's posting to explain away her actions to me. What is totally interesting is the edits that have occurred since I last commented on this. She took out the explanation that she was "trying to fit in" as a reason for her lies and deception. (must know how wrong and narcistic that is, huh?) She has also edited some other stuff. I should have saved her post to my computer and kept those pertinent facts. How can someone see something they wrote, edit it out, and not know or recognize how wrong it was in the first place and what it shows? I guess the female donor needs to leave her mask on, at least for "her public" LOL. Perhaps too many of "her fans" caught her and tried to comment (note her comments are always closed now, as I am sure the truth hurts, as it should)