Sunday, May 11, 2008

A Little Drama from the Mama



Happy Mother's Day!!! Remember folks, sometimes you just can't run far enough away.




Enjoy my e donor's May 3rd post, where we discover the reason that I don't talk to her is an attempt to ruin her life. Da Da Da Duuummmmm~!!
And my favorite quote of her post "I still feel good about having been her mom and she can go screw herself if she thinks that she can wreck my life by not talking to me. " Cause it's all about her folks, it's all about her. And she is lovely, and I think some lucky grown up woman ought to adopt her.
There is not a definitive post here that gives background information to this estrangement. The category "Maniac for A Mother" will give you a hodge podge of postings about my E Donor.
The category "Evil that is BA" will give you postings on my lovely Step Monster, since it's a mother's day theme and all.


5 comments:

Anonymous said...

My mother died in January. For many years we didn't get along too well, and we really never had much in common. Now that she's dead, I miss her so much.

I'm sorry you are so stuck in your immaturity...time to grow up and be responsible for yourself (way PAST time). If you choose to be an eternal victim, you deserve all the negative crap that life hands you. If you choose to be positive you will reap the benefits. Don't wait too long or it'll be too late for you.
P.S. I am NOT your mother, fortunately. My daughters love me.

winterskibunny said...

So sorry that your mother died, and you are blaming others for not contacting her.

Everyone's situation is different, and everyone needs a place to vent. Hopefully, your family allowed you to vent.

However, your judgemental ways make me think you have not grown up or taken responsibility for your decisions.

I will not regret the estrangement from my mother when she is dead, though I do not wish anyone dead. I have made my decision responsibly.

winterskibunny said...

By the way "anonymous" I the step to seperate from my mother is positive. I don't get where you would think it's negative.

When someone can not respect your boundaries when your husband is in the hospital and you are living your life, and harrasses you, spies on you, and contacts relatives to interview them, accepting that kind of treatment is no way to live your life.

It is a positive step that I took, that I don't regret one bit. However, it seems you have some unresolved issues that you should really explore with a therapist and not me.

Good luck there!!! And go find another punching bag, would ya?

winterskibunny said...

Oh, and anonymous, I have taken care of myself since 20 years old totally.

Life has handed me good things, so I guess the way I deal with things is good as well. Unless you call crap a successful marriage, a successful corporate accounting career, a successful business that I started, and living by the ocean on four acres of land with my three beloved dogs.

I think another is living in their own crap. I see that you visit here, and probably report back to her.

Triangulation is something that you should research, and is not a healthy thing to do or a healthy form of communication.

winterskibunny said...

Oh, and anonymous, I have taken care of myself since 20 years old totally.

Life has handed me good things, so I guess the way I deal with things is good as well. Unless you call crap a successful marriage, a successful corporate accounting career, a successful business that I started, and living by the ocean on four acres of land with my three beloved dogs.

I think another is living in their own crap. I see that you visit here, and probably report back to her.

Triangulation is something that you should research, and is not a healthy thing to do or a healthy form of communication.