I see that I have a frequent visitor from Canada. If you are not someone from my family on vacation there, I'd like to shout out a hello. These sorts of things are really sucky, which is why I don't spend a lot of time on this blog, except for the holidays. Go figure.
Any way, if you are going through this and having any questions, and don't think I appear to psycho, feel free to e-mail or comment. It's not an easy thing to go through alone:)